Seek First to Understand, Then to be Understood
Listen with your eyes, ears, and heart. -Try to make eye contact when someone is talking to show them that you’re paying attention. Use your ears to hear what they have to say and how they feel. Lastly, use your heart to empathize with them and care about what they are sharing with you.
Repeat back what you hear. -To make sure you really understand, repeat what the other person said.
Help friends when you see them having a misunderstanding. -Help them take turns explaining their sides of the story. Remind the other person that it is not their turn to talk yet. After they listen to the other person, they’ll get their chance to share their feelings. When that time comes, make sure the one who already shared listens to other as well.
Activity to start discussion with elementary age children-
The True Story of the Three Little Pigs by Jon Scieszka
